Monday, May 15, 2017

Fear and Grieving

             Fear can be a terrible thing.  It can interrupt our day, make anything that we are doing more difficult.  It needs to be confronted and put to rest, but often that is a very hard thing to do.

            Jesus disciples were haunted by fear after their Lord was arrested, condemned and crucified by the religious authorities and by Pontius Pilate. The gospel for today is an earlier conversation, but it describes all of this.  It is a clear statement by Jesus that we will follow him into eternity.  His disciples didn’t understand that.  Notice that he begins his conversation with them by saying do not let your hearts be troubled. Believe in God, believe also in me; words said to his disciples because of their obvious fear.  I can understand how they felt.  Their Lord was talking about leaving them and they were afraid of what would come next.  How would they be treated by the Sadducees and the Pharisees?  Would they be caught?  Would they then face death? 

            After the resurrection when they were all behind closed doors as the gospel said, for fear of the Jews.  It is then that the resurrected Jesus appears to them and showed them his wounds, but he was obviously present.  At that moment, their fear turned to joy and they knew that their work was not in vain and that they would continue the work that they had all started together.
           
             I love this morning’s gospel.  I want it to be read at my funeral.  It speaks eloquently of the truth of eternal life and the incredible mercy that Jesus offers to all of us after our death.  It has the obvious intent of confronting and allaying our fears.  It isn’t necessary to be afraid of dying.  It is a perfectly natural thing that we will all experience.  The difficulty that it presents is that of leaving our family and our friends and not being with them anymore.  That is why we grieve.  Grief is an important emotion.  It speaks clearly of the love that we have for each other and the loss that we feel at the time of death.  Our grief is why we come together at funerals to care for each other.  Our compassion and caring goes a long way to overcoming the worst of our grieving.  I have seen that happen countless times in my ministry.  When families gather to mourn a death with their friends and relatives, it makes a profound difference.  Surprisingly, the most frequent sound that you will hear in a funeral home is laughter.  It comes from people telling stories about the deceased and sharing their own personal moments.  That is a beautiful thing.

            What Jesus is telling his disciples is that his ministry won’t be over, even if he dies.  He tells them that they will go into the world and do greater things than he has done.  That he will be with them always and that they will never be alone.  The key to this is what Jesus calls belief.  Believe in God, he tells them, believe also in me! He goes on to tell them that even if they don’t believe in him, look at the works that he has done and to believe in them.  He tells them that they will go on to do greater works than these.  And so they did.  There are many stories of the disciples healing and bringing life to people who had no hope. 

            After Jesus’ resurrection, Peter begins to confront the Pharisees about the way that they are treating people.  He is no longer afraid of them.  This became true of all of Jesus’ followers.  Eventually, they all died, but before that, they formed and developed a wonderful Christian community that spread the word of God throughout the countryside. 

            In the Epistle today, we have the story of the stoning of the first martyr Stephen with Saul, later named Paul, holding the coats of the stoners.  With his last breath, the dying Stephen prays to God not to hold this sin against any of those who are killing him.  We all know what happened shortly after to Saul, how he was stopped on the road to Damascus, blinded and called out by the risen Christ when he says to Saul:  Saul, Saul, why do you persecute me?  The blind Saul, then renamed Paul was sent into Damascus to see a man named Annanias who cured him of his blindness and set him on the course that we know so well through his letters.  Paul the apostle who had never met Jesus in the flesh became a powerful promoter of the Christian cause.

            That is how the church continued down the centuries.  We are the latest edition of the followers of Christ.  We are sent into the world to make life better for those whom we meet.  God loves all of us and all of them.  What we do for them is the nature of Christian ministry.  Making fear go away is a great part of our work.  Believe in God, believe also in Jesus.  That is the key both to this life and the next.

            

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